Hindrance to Consecration
No one who sincerely desires to attain, in his own person, or promote in others, a purer and more elevated discipleship, can possibly contemplate the Christianity of the present day without an indescribable feeling of sadness and heaviness.
- Its tone is so excessively low, its aspect so sickly, and its spirit so enfeebled, that one is, at times, tempted to despair of anything like a true and faithful witness for an absent Lord.
- All this is the more truly deplorable, when we remember the commanding motives by which it is our special privilege ever to be actuated.
- Whether we look at the Master whom we are called to follow – the path which we are called to tread – the end which we are called to keep in view – or the hopes by which we are to be animated –
- we cannot but own that, were all these entered into, and realised by a more simple faith, we should, assuredly, exhibit a more ardent discipleship.
- "The love of Christ", says the apostle, "constraineth us". This is the most powerful motive of all. The more the heart is filled with Christ's love, and the eye filled with His blessed Person, the more closely shall we seek to follow in His heavenly track.
- His footmarks can only be discovered by "a single eye"; and unless the will is broken, the flesh mortified, and the body kept under, we shall utterly fail in our discipleship, and make shipwreck of faith and a good conscience.
Let not my reader misunderstand me. It is not, here, by any means, a question of personal salvation. It is quite another thing.
- Nothing can be more basely selfish than, having received salvation as the fruit of Christ's agony and bloody sweat, His cross and passion, to keep at as great a distance from His sacred Person as we can, without forfeiting our personal safety.
- This is, even in the judgement of nature, deemed a character of selfishness worthy of unmingled contempt;
- but when exhibited by one who professes to owe his present and his everlasting all to a rejected, crucified, risen, and absent Master, no language can express its moral baseness.
- "Provided I escape hell-fire, it makes little matter as to discipleship".
- Reader, do you not, in your inmost soul, abhor this sentiment? If so, then earnestly seek to flee from it, to the very opposite point of the compass; and let your truthful language be:
- "Provided that blessed Master is glorified, it makes little matter, comparatively, about my personal safety".
- Would to God that this were the sincere utterance of many hearts in this day, when, alas it may be too truly said that, "all seek their own, not the things which are Jesus Christ's", Phil. 2: 21.
- Would that the Holy Ghost would raise up, by His own resistless power, and send forth by His own heavenly energy, a band of separated and consecrated followers of the Lamb, each one bound, by the cords of love, to the horns of the altar –
- a company, like Gideon's three hundred of old, able to confide in God, and deny the flesh. How the heart longs for this!
- How the spirit, bowed down at times beneath the chilling and withering influence of a cold and uninfluential profession, earnestly breathes after a more vigorous and whole-hearted testimony for that One, who emptied Himself, and laid aside his glory, in order that we, through His precious bloodshedding, might be raised to companionship with Him in eternal blessedness.
Now, amongst the numerous hindrances to this thorough consecration of heart to Christ which I earnestly desire for myself and my reader, "the unequal yoke" will be found to occupy a very prominent place indeed.
- "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what partnership hath righteousness with unrighteousness [or rather, lawlessness]? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath a believer with an unbeliever And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, and will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty", 2 Cor. 6: 14-18.
Under the Mosaic economy, we learn the same moral principle.
- "Thou shalt not sow thy vineyard with divers seeds: lest the fruit of thy seed which thou hast sown, and the fruit of thy vineyard, be defiled. Thou shalt not plough with an ox and an ass together. Thou shalt not wear a garment of divers sorts, as of woollen and linen together", Deut. 22: 9-11; Lev. 19: 19.
These scriptures will suffice to set forth the moral evil of an unequal yoke.
- It may, with full confidence be asserted that no one can be an unshackled follower of Christ who is, in any way, "unequally yoked".
- He may be a saved person, he may be a true child of God – a sincere believer, but he cannot be a thorough disciple;
- and not only so, but there is a positive hindrance to the full manifestation of that which he may really be, notwithstanding his unequal yoke.
- "Come out … and I will receive you … and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty". That is to say, 'Get your neck out of the unequal yoke, and I will receive you, and there shall be the full, public, practical manifestation of your relationship with the Lord Almighty'.
- The idea, here, is evidently different from that set forth in James: "Of his own will begat he us, by the word of truth".
- And also in Peter, "Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God which liveth and abideth for ever".
- And, again, in 1 John: "Behold what manner of love the Father hath bestowed on us, that we should be called the sons of God".
- So also, in John's gospel, "But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name; which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God".
- In all these passages, the relationship of sons is founded upon the divine counsel and the divine operation, and is not set before us as the consequence of any acting of ours;
- whereas, in 2 Corinthians 6, it is put as the result of our getting out of the unequal yoke. In other words, it is entirely a practical question.
Thus, in Matthew 5, we read, "But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; in order that ye may be the sons of your Father which is in heaven; because he causeth his sun to rise upon the evil and the good, and sendeth rain upon the just and the unjust".
- Here, too, it is the practical establishment and public declaration of the relationship, and its moral influence. It becomes the sons of such a Father to act in such a way.
- In short, we have the abstract position or relationship of sons founded upon God's sovereign will and operation;
- and we have the moral character consequent upon and flowing out of this relationship which affords just ground for God's public acknowledgment thereof.
- God cannot fully and publicly own those who are unequally yoked together with unbelievers, for, were He to do so, it would be an acknowledgment of the unequal yoke.
- He cannot acknowledge "darkness", "unrighteousness", "Belial", "idols", and "an infidel". How could He!
- Hence, if I yoke myself with any of these, I am moral-ly and publicly identified with them, and not with God at all. I have put myself into a position which God can-not own, and, as a consequence, He cannot own me;
- but if I withdraw myself from that position – if I "come out and be separate" – if I take my neck out of the unequal yoke – then, but not until then, can I be publicly and fully received and owned as a "son or daughter of the Lord Almighty".
This is a solemn and searching principle for all who feel that they have unhappily gotten themselves into such a yoke.
- They are not walking as disciples, nor are they publicly or morally on the ground of sons. God cannot own them.
- Their secret relationship is not the point; but they have put themselves thoroughly off God's ground.
- They have foolishly thrust their neck into a yoke which, inasmuch as it is not Christ's yoke, must be Belial's yoke; and until they cast off that yoke, God cannot own them as His sons and daughters.
- God's grace, no doubt, is infinite, and can meet us in all our failure and weakness; but if our souls aspire after a higher order of discipleship, we must at once cast off the unequal yoke, cost what it may;
- that is, if it can be cast off; but, if it cannot, we must only bow our heads beneath the shame and sorrow thereof, looking to God for full deliverance.
Now, there are four distinct phases in which "the unequal yoke" may be contemplated, viz., the domestic, the commercial, the religious, and the philanthropic.
- Some may be disposed to confine 2 Corinthians 6: 14 to the first of these; but the apostle does not so confine it. The words are "Be not unequally yoked together with unbelievers".
- He does not specify the character or object of the yoke, and therefore we are warranted in giving the passage its widest application, by bringing its edge to bear directly upon every phase of the unequal yoke; and we shall see the importance of so doing, ere we close these remarks, if the Lord permit.
1. The Domestic or Marriage Yoke
And first, then, let us consider the domestic or marriage yoke.
- What pen can portray the mental anguish, the moral misery, together with the ruinous consequences, as to spiritual life and testimony, flowing from a Christian's marriage with an unconverted person?
- I suppose nothing can be more deplorable than the condition of one who discovers, when it is too late, that he has linked himself for life with one who cannot have a single thought or feeling in common with him.
- One desires to serve Christ; the other can only serve the devil: one breathes after the things of God the other sighs for the things of this present world the one earnestly seeks to mortify the flesh, with all its affections and desires; the other only seeks to minister to and gratify these very things.
- Like a sheep and a goat linked together, the sheep longs to feed on the green pasture in the field, while, on the other hand, the goat craves the brambles which grow in the ditch. The sad consequence is that both are starved.
- One will not feed on the pasture, and the other cannot feed upon the brambles, and thus neither gets what his nature craves, unless the goat, by superior strength, succeeds in forcing his unequally yoked companion to remain amongst the brambles, there to languish and die.
The moral of this is plain enough; and, moreover, it is, alas! of but too common occurrence.
- The goat generally succeeds in gaining his end. The worldly partner carries his or her point, in almost every instance.
- It will be found, almost without exception, that in cases of the unequal marriage yoke, the poor Christian is the sufferer,
- as is evidenced by the bitter fruits of a bad conscience, a depressed heart a gloomy spirit, and a desponding mind.
- A heavy price, surely, to pay for the gratification of some natural affection, or the attainment, it may be, of some paltry worldly advantage.
- In fact, a marriage of this kind is the death-knell of practical Christianity, and of progress in the divine life.
- It is morally impossible that any one can be an unfettered disciple of Christ with his neck in the marriage yoke with an unbeliever.
As well might a racer in the Olympic or Isthmaean games have expected to gain the crown of victory by attaching a heavy weight or a dead body to his person.
- It is enough, surely, to have one dead body to sustain, without attaching another.
- There never was a true Christian yet who did not find that he had abundant work to do in endeavouring to grapple with the evils of one heart, without going to burden himself with the evils of two;
- and, without doubt, the man who, foolishly and disobediently, marries an unconverted woman; or the woman who marries an unconverted man, is burdened with the combined evils of two hearts; and who is sufficient for these things?
- One can most fully count upon the grace of Christ for the subjugation of his own evil nature; but he certainly cannot count, in the same way, upon that grace in reference to the evil nature of his unequal yoke-fellow.
- If he have yoked himself ignorantly, the Lord will meet him personally, on the ground of full confession, with entire restoration of soul, but in the matter of his discipleship, he will never recover it.
Paul could say, "I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection; lest by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be disapproved of".
- And he said this, too, in immediate connection with "striving for the mastery".
- "Know ye not that they which run in a race, run all, but one obtaineth the prize? So run that ye may obtain. And every one that striveth for the mastery is temperate [self-controlled] in all things: now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown, but we an incorruptible. I therefore so run, not as uncertainly; so fight I, not as one that beateth the air …", 1 Cor. 9: 24-27.
Here, it is not a question of life or salvation, but simply one of "running in a race", and "so running that we obtain", not life, but "an incorruptible crown".
- The fact of being called to run assumes the possession of life, for no one would call upon dead men to run in a race.
- I have got life, evidently, before I begin to run at all, and, hence, though I should fail in the race, I do not lose my life, but only the crown, for this and not that was the object proposed to be run for.
- We are not called to run for life, inasmuch as we get that, not by running, but "by faith of Jesus Christ", who by His death has purchased life for us, and im-plants it in us, by the mighty energy of the Holy Ghost.
- Now, this life, being the life of a risen Christ, is eternal, for He is the eternal Son; as He says Himself, in His address to the Father, in John 17, "Thou hast given him power over all flesh, that he should give eternal life to as many as thou hast given him".
- This life is not conditional. He does not give us life, as sinners, and then set us to run for it as saints, with the gloomy foreboding, that we may lose the precious boon by failing in the race.
- This would be to "run uncertainly", as many alas! are trying to do, who profess to have entered upon the course, and yet know not whether they have life or not.
- Such persons are running for life, and not for a crown; but God does not set up life at the goal, as the reward of victory, but gives it at the starting post, as the power by which we run.
- The power to run, and the object of running, are two very different things; yet they are constantly con-founded by persons who are ignorant of the glorious gospel of the grace of God,
- in which Christ is set forth as the life and righteousness of all who believe on His name; and all this, moreover, as the free gift of God, and not as the reward of our running.
Now, in considering the terribly evil consequences of the unequal marriage yoke, it is mainly as bearing upon our discipleship that we are looking at them.
- I say, mainly, because our entire character and experience are deeply affected thereby. I very much question if any one can give a more effectual blow to his prosperity in the divine life, than by assuming an unequal yoke.
- Indeed, the very fact of so doing proves that spiritual decline has already set in, with most alarming symptoms; but as to his discipleship and testimony, the lamp thereof may be regarded as all but gone out;
- or if it does give an occasional faint glimmer, it only serves to make manifest the awful gloom of his unhappy position, and the appalling consequences of being "unequally yoked together with an unbeliever".
Thus much as to the question of the unequal yoke, in its influence upon the life, the character, the testimony, and the discipleship, of a child of God.
- I would now say a word as to its moral effect, as exhibited in the domestic circle.
- Here, too, the consequences are truly melancholy. Nor could they possibly be otherwise.
- Two persons have come together in the closest and most intimate relationship, with tastes, habits, feelings, desires, tendencies, and objects diametrically opposite.
- They have nothing in common; so that, in every movement, they can but grate one against the other.
- The unbeliever cannot, in reality, go with the believer; and if there should, through excessive amiability, or downright hypocrisy, be a show of acquiescence, what is it worth in the sight of the Lord, who judges the true state of the heart in reference to Himself? But little indeed; yea, it is worse than worthless.
- Then, again, if the believer should, unhappily go in any measure with his unequal yoke-fellow, it can only be at the expense of his discipleship, and the consequence is, a condemning conscience in the sight of the Lord;
- and this, again, leads to heaviness of spirit, and, it may be, sourness of temper, in the domestic circle so that the grace of the gospel is, by no means commended, and the unbeliever is not attracted or won.
- Thus it is, in every way, most sorrowful. It is dishonouring to God, destructive of spiritual prosperity, utterly subversive of discipleship and testimony, and entirely hostile to domestic peace and blessing.
- It produces estrangement, coldness, distance, and misunderstanding; or, if it does not produce these,
- it will, doubtless, lead, on the part of the Christian, to a forfeiture of his discipleship and his good conscience, both of which he may be tempted to offer as a sacrifice upon the altar of domestic peace.
- Thus, whatever way we look at it, an unequal yoke must lead to the most deplorable consequences.
Effect on Children
Then, as to its effect upon children, it is equally sad. These are almost sure to flow in the current with the unconverted parent.
- "Their children spoke half in the speech of Ash-dod, and could not speak in the Jews' language, but according to the language of each people".
- There can be no union of heart in the training of the children; no joint and mutual confidence in reference to them.
- One desires to bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord; the other desires to bring them up in the principles of the world, the flesh, and the devil:
- and as all the sympathies of the children, as they grow up, are likely to be ranged on the side of the latter, it is easy to see how it will end.
- In short, it is an unseemly, unscriptural, and vain effort to plough with an "unequal yoke", or to "sow the ground with mingled seed"; and all must end in sorrow and confusion.