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The Parting of the Ways
– 1960's

 
Introduction
J. L. Wallach
Philip Haddad
Charles W. Cooper
Benjamin Isham
R. W. N. Saunders
Miss Ivy Frost
James Rainford
Frank G. Holding
Ernst Beck

B. G. Hardingham
Oivind N. Evenson
Miss T. Stenbock
Gordon E. Pilgrim
 




INTRODUCTION
Maintaining faith and a good conscience; which last some,
having put away, have made shipwreck as to faith. 1 Timothy 1: 19


We sorrow, rightly – though not as those who have no hope – when we are separated from brethren by the Lord taking them to Himself.

The writers do not all deal with exactly the same issues, and certainly not in the same way or in the same depth – but most, if not all, of their letters exhibit certain common features:—

  1. a judgment of the unscripturalness of both the letter and spirit of various teachings and practices which had been put forward as binding upon the consciences of the brethren;

  2. an unwillingness to allow their consciences to be overridden by the claims of mere human authority;

  3. an unaffected and unfeigned reluctance to separate from brethren long-known and loved.


Most, if not all, of the writers are now "with Christ". But, they are like Abel, of whom it is said, "having died, he yet speaks", Hebrews 11: 4.
To read the letters casually, merely for information, without in some measure entering into the feelings of the writers would be an insult, to their memory and to Him for whose honour, and in whose interests, they acted so faithfully.


The withdrawal of the writers of these letters came in the wake of the emergence and dominance of the legal sect following the London 1959 meetings.


  Related Pages:
Biography: G. R. Cowell: London 1959 and His Trials
History: Hymn Book: 1962 Revision
History: Decline and Departure: Recent Developments
History: Wrong in Principle?

G. A. R.

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THE  PARTING  OF  THE  WAYS
– 1960's

J.  L.  WALLACH
Hornchurch,  England,  November  14,  1960
JLW later moved to Marlow, Bucks.
In the 1960-70's, he and Mr. H. S. Etty of Chelmsford edited 'Help and Comfort – A Magazine for the Help, Edification and Comfort of Christians'.


I am grieved to have to inform brethren, among whom I have been in happy fellowship for many years, that I am no longer able to walk with them. The sorrowful matters that have brought me to this decision are:

The Scripture that is governing my present step is

I have reluctantly and painfully come to the conclusion before the Lord that it must be named as evil and, on the authority of 2 Timothy 2, I withdraw from iniquity.

Brethren may the Lord, in His mercy, grant that eyes may be opened to the true character of this teaching,

I may add that my wife is fully with me in this decision.

J. L. Wallach.

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PHILIP  HADDAD
Ilford,  Essex,  England, December 6, 1960
Mr. Haddad was later associated with Mr. G. R. Cowell and others. He published the ministry of those brethren and 16 volumes of the 'Memorials of the Ministry of G. R. Cowell'. I had a brief and interesting telephone conversation with him in the 1970's when he was in Toronto visiting Mr. R. W. N. Saunders.


To the Brethren meeting in Ilford – Essex

Beloved Brethren,
It is necessary for me to state now my deep exercises before God.

That there are two levels of eating in both Old and New Testaments is clear from Deut. 12: 4-14 – fellowship – verses 15-16 and 22 – not fellowship – also in chapter 15: 22.

JT's ministry on these matters is very helpful, as in Vol. 60: 11-14, 46-47, England 1945; Vol. 64: 212-19 [? 313-19?], Australia 1947, which, in many cases, are carefully avoided.

But to those amongst us who insist that all eating is fellowship, JT's answer on page 65 to WB-w's remark again proves Peter's failure to discern those that were clean – though of course not breaking bread yet.

We frequently hear the words 'the circle', 'the company', 'the position', 'the fellowship', etc. but Mr. Taylor Jr. has now gone even further and said in the New York Readings of last month on page 292. JTJr, Vol. 6: 347.

Also in a reading at Chesterfield [which does not appear to have been included in the series of books of 'ministry' by JTJr] on August 10th, 1960, he said:

For the following, see
Guests: My Stand 1: Authoritative Ministry.

But it is not only the question of eating which has deeply disturbed and distressed me and my wife. We are called upon to accept and obey without any question as to 'authoritative ministry', so-called.

The above is a condition of things that leaves no room for individual conscience as before God but a dictatorial attitude is ready to stifle genuine enquiry and personal exercise about Scriptural truths often conveniently set aside or misinterpre-ted, such as 1 Cor. 10: 23-33 and 1 Cor. 11: 20, and others.

As to the moral side, the outward position – in itself essential as to our righteous standing and walk before men in testimony – is scrupulously maintained,

I fully realize the seriousness of what I have now stated, but it is the result of much heart searching and the deepest concern and distress as before God as to this state of things amongst us,

I am deeply conscious of my own weakness and failures and have not forgotten how bitterly I proved in the past my inability to stand for one moment without the helping hand and grace of our Lord Jesus.

Finally, will you allow me, beloved brethren, to tell you how much I sincerely love you each and all as in Christ, and shall continue to do so and bring you in my prayers before the Lord,

With our united love in Christ to you all,

Yours affectionately in Him, Philip Haddad.

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CHARLES  W.  COOPER
Belfast,  North  Ireland,  December 8, 1960
See Ministry: C. W. Cooper for some personal details.


To those who break bread at 285a Ormeau Road and elsewhere.

Beloved Brethren,
This letter is to acquaint you of the fact that, in order to maintain a good conscience before God, I must withdraw from fellowship with you.

This may appear surprising to some of you, but in present conditions amongst the brethren, I discern a striking similarity to the system that grew up at Plymouth in 1845, and from which JND eventually withdrew.

  1. Attaching undue authority to teachers, and to one in particular, by means of which the distinctive authority of the word of God was nullified.

  2. Claiming that Plymouth was a model from which all other gatherings could take pattern.

  3. Building up an organization intending to promote unity, and this institution gaining such a hold on the brethren that, as JND has said, both spiritual and natural affections were set aside to maintain the claims of the system.

  4. Giving up the preaching of the gospel and devoting that occasion to teaching the brethren which was said to be more important.

I judge, brethren, that some, if not all, of these things are operating amongst you.

In a lengthy letter, Mr. George H. Patton of Belfast attempted to refute and ridicule CWC's reasons for withdrawal and to fasten inconsistencies on him.
On Jan. 2, 1961, GHP also wrote to Mr. W. Ernest Winter, in a similar vein, commenting on his letter of withdrawal from the JTJr sect in Donaghadee. He also charged Mr. Winter with being influenced by his "family links".

During an enforced rest from business this week, when I had more time than usual to weight things over before the Lord, my path became clear from a well-known Scripture in Matthew 14. It is the Lord's call to Peter out of the boat.

I have endeavoured to keep to principles and to avoid anything that might give offence, for the bondman of the Lord ought not to contend, but be gentle towards all.

My wife wishes me to say that she shares my exercises and likewise withdraws.

Your brother in Christ, Charles W. Cooper.

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BENJAMIN  ISHAM
Oakland,  California,  U.S.A.  –  c. 1960
Mr. Isham wrote No. 547 in the 1993 Hymn Supplement.


To the brethren meeting at 5633 Manila St., Oakland, California

Beloved brethren:
It is nearly a year now since ministry came out in regard to separation for which I was thankful, desiring myself to walk in true separation to God.

The pattern the enemy has been using recently is just what he has used at other times. In a word it is this:

From such a state can flow out all forms of error, both in teaching and practice.

And is it not sin to assume any ministry as being infallible and unchallengeable?

And is it not sin to make the acceptation of current ministry a basis for fellowship though ministered by a gifted servant and universally accepted yet found not to be in accord with Scripture?

Is it not sin to attach importance to our circle of fellowship, claiming that the Lord's presence is only with us? Other sects say the same thing.

It is also very sad to see that in many cases Romans 14 and 1 Cor. 8 are disregarded in matters relating to prohibition.

Some may say, I know things are not right, but we must not leave the position. There it is a matter of faith, a matter of where we stand in relation to Christ Himself.

At this present time we are actually linked with sin, with what is contrary to the Scriptures, contrary to the Spirit's speaking through valued servants such as JND, JBS, FER, CAC, JTSr.

There has been considerable speaking of late as to those who have withdrawn – I am not referring to those who have been involved in unseemly conduct etc., but [to those] who have gone out in real exercise before God –

I little doubt but that these things may be the last great test among us prior to the rapture.

The tender love and care of my brethren for me and mine occasioned by my handicap [complete deafness] and coupled with my ill health is very much appreciated –

If there was hope that the above mentioned error with all its accompaniments could be judged and put away we might well bear with it, but instead of it being judged

On account of the seriousness of the evil being held amongst you we would not be free to discuss matters with any who are representatives of what is being held,

Your brother in Christ, Benjamin Isham.

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R.  W.  N.  SAUNDERS
Toronto,  Ontario,  Canada,  January 2, 1961
Mr. and Mrs. Saunders came from England c. 1950, and we were in the same local meeting. They withdrew shortly after the following letter. After we withdrew in 1971, I confessed my part in their treatment, receiving their full forgiveness.


Beloved Brother [to four brothers],
The attached [statement following] is intended to outline my exercise and not to forestall 'temple light' at the city gatherings.

Moreover, what the saints need on the city occasions is food not contention, do you not think?

Love in the Lord, R. W. N. Saunders.


— Statement of R. W. N. Saunders —

As at the Care Meeting on December 31 [1960], I was not granted the opportunity to explain my conscience as to what appears to be receiving acceptance as 'current ministry'

I refer to the assertion that 'eating with unbelievers is sin'. This appears to be directly incompatible with the apostle Paul's word in 1 Cor. 10: 27 –

The difficulty in the minds of many seems to be that 'fellowship' is necessarily involved in such eating which must therefore be refused as evil on account of –

As has been rightly said, these Scriptures will certainly solve many questions.

It is true that this last-quoted Scripture refers to mixing but 'mixing' is a larger and more general thought and may find expression in 'eating' –

This brings up the question 'what is an unbeliever?' – Quite simply an unbeliever is one who make no profession of Christianity.

I have Asiatics in my office and I have to do with strangers in my business – how can I assume that they have declared either their indifference or their rejection of the truth?

So, that, I cannot see that the case is proven that there is no such unbeliever to-day as is contemplated in 1 Cor. 10: 27 – but this has been emphatically asserted in public in oral ministry very recently.

The 'great house' conditions had not developed at Corinth in Paul's day but even there the unbeliever was in proximity to a powerful and sustained apostolic testimony to the truth and was in the presence of the public witness of an undivided assembly in the city of Corinth.

I do not find that Scripture supports the assumption that eating is necessarily an expression of fellowship.

I am not referring to eating in a canteen, restaurant, etc., or special cases affected by recognition of the family institution as proceeding from God. I am referring to eating with an unbeliever.

Other references to eating – or drinking – in 1 Cor. 10 clearly connect with a religious setting and, for that reason, do involve an identification in fellowship and must be evil if the religious setting be wrong.

I find, therefore, difficulty in facing the matter of eating as being necessarily iniquitous in cases where a man's history or background is entirely unknown to me – and eating with or at the invitation of strangers is not an uncommon occurrence in the business sphere.

I readily see that habitual eating with unbelievers is indicative of an affinity on a worldly level and would represent a 'fellowship' which cannot be tolerated.

I may meet a man – stranger – in business whose sole idea in inviting me to lunch is to discuss a business problem – I have experienced an actual instance.

I have felt great hesitation in bringing this forward sooner and do still, lest I should in any way appear to be weakening or diverting from the real point of the ministry – for which I see a real need viz. –

But to accept an inflexible rule – which seems to be the tendency – so as to forbid an aged widow – dependent or not on an unconverted son –

It may be charged that I am lawless as not subject to the ministry – which I cannot claim to have fully read.

The challenge may also be raised that I am not respecting authority, but I cannot see that any man can come between my conscience and God

To remove doubt as to my own attitude to beloved Mr. J. Taylor Jr., may I say I gladly regard him as having gift from the Lord, and the authority that goes along with it must and does command the full respect of my conscience,

Clearly – there can be no question as to the 'wall' – it must be maintained, but is there not cause for concern as to the materials we each individually adopt, lest in any wise we "daub it with untempered mortar", Ezekiel 13: 15 –

Are we not to "contend earnestly for the faith once delivered to the saints", Jude 3 ?

Surely there can be no inconsistency between a path of separation and one of true Christian liberty?

R. W. N. Saunders.

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MISS  IVY  FROST
Birmingham,  England , January 1961
The following letter was read out at the City reading on Jan. 11, 1961. One present said that it put all the brothers into a silence of deep shame, and it was a long time before this silence was broken. Eventually one brother, said that some things in the letter were wrong, but several others immediately declared that it was too true! One brother actually got up and defended the writer of the letter.       Anonymous.


To brethren meeting at Turner Street and elsewhere in Birmingham

I am writing this letter after months of prayerful consideration, heart-searching and waiting on the Lord,

Looking for the fruits of the Spirit:— "Love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, fidelity, meekness, self-control", Gal. 5: 22-23 – as a result of what is considered further light,

For many years I have been profoundly disturbed by the way many of the Exclusive Brethren have spoken of other Christians in a derogatory way, implying that they are lost,

I am appalled by the inhumanity, selfishness, self-righteousness, and apathy amongst us; a disinclination to get down to things, to examine where we have gone wrong and displeased God.

I cannot feel that in these last days the salvation of sinners is standing still, or decreasing.

Thinking back over the years, one realises that for a very long time, brothers have not been free to ask questions of a nature which would result in the building up of a healthy spiritual constitution. The lack of this has been manifest.

Yes, I think, as is said, we are being sifted, refined and purified for the Rapture, but surely the Lord is doing this by calling us out of the Romish system which has evolved amongst us under the name of Exclusive Brethrenism.

On many occasions recently I have been arrested by the Lord's specific command – "Love thy neighbour as thyself", and have felt

I am encouraged to find that there are many others all over the country, of much greater spiritual stature than myself, who have similar exercises to mine, but have not dared to voice them.

I love my brethren and shall continue to do so, but I do not love some of their actions,

I am satisfied that the step I am taking is with the Lord's approval, as I have prayed much about this and fervently sought His guidance,

I am adamant in my decision, and therefore visits from brothers or sisters would avail nothing,

To leave the brethren is not an easy step after years of close association, but it has had to be a choice between them and the Lord.

Your affectionate sister in the Lord Jesus Christ.

Ivy Frost.

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JAMES  RAINFORD
Colwyn  Bay,  Denbighshire  c. January , 1961
JR's letter is similar to that of FGH following, but both are worthy of inclusion. As they were in the same locality they may well have shared their exercises.
Mr. Rainford is understood to have been born in the late 1880's in Wigan. where he was employed by the Coal Board as a mine inspector, moving to Colwym Bay on his retirement. He was well respected and served in ministry in his area. It is believed he was taken by the Lord in the mid 1960's.


Beloved Brethren:
I have for some time been gravely concerned, along with very many others, at the increasing downward trend in both the teaching and the morality of the Exclusive Brethren.

I adopt the title used by themselves in appeals on behalf of brothers in Professional Institutions, made to the Government of this country, though in America, the same sect is registered with the Government of the U.S.A. as Plymouth Brethren No. 4 for the purpose of securing exemption from Combatant Service.     JR
The U.S.A. designation was originally and arbitrarily assigned by the Bureau of Census in the 'Census of Religious Bodies – 1926', or earlier, to distinguish various groups and, for this reason, was later used for identification in appeals for recog-nition of conscience. It is not a registration. As the brethren were officially unknown to the Government of Canada this Census was also referred to in the 1943 appeal.     GAR
See History: Conscientious Objection to Bearing Arms.


It has been my constant prayer to the Lord, that I might receive from Him 'eye salve that I might see', and now I can say, humbly and without pretension, that my eyes are fully open to the awful situation that has now become established among this sect.

It is with great sorrow of heart that, after 50 years happy fellowship, I am compelled in loyalty to Christ to separate from iniquity as instructed in 2 Timothy 2.

For the following, see
Guests: My Stand 1: Authoritative Ministry.

1. Authoritative Ministry

This lies at the root of all the false doctrine at present existing among the Exclusive Brethren.

No longer do we hear among these brethren 'What saith the Scriptures?' but rather 'Is it in the Ministry?'

Forsaking the Word of God, and substituting the doctrines of men, has led to all the confusion in Christendom, and to all the confusion now rampant in the iniquitous sect of Exclusive Brethren, they have forsaken the Word and there is no light in them.

A further serious matter is that it is openly stated by their leaders, and accepted by their followers, that it is not at all necessary to follow the Scriptures, but they must listen to the 'voice of the Spirit in the assembly'.

If anyone has the moral courage to call attention to these false doctrines, he is immediately marked down for excommunication as one who is 'not going on with the truth'.

2. Pharasaism

Of all the sects existent among the Jews, when the Lord Jesus Christ was here on earth, none received more scathing denunciation than the Pharisees – or Holy Ones as they called themselves.

I have already referred to one characteristic, that of making the Word of God void, but in addition their present line of 'Authoritative Ministry', falsely so called, has for its end

Young men and women, and older ones too, even some taking a prominent lead, have been found guilty of adultery, fornication, uncleanness, incest, drunkenness, falsehood, deceit and other such things.

A great deal of trouble and sorrow has come in of late, by the false and totally unscriptural doctrine, that members of this iniquitous sect must not eat with any outside their own membership, whether relatives, believers or unbelievers.

Widespread sorrow and misery have followed in the wake of this false doctrine – false as to the life and movements of the Lord Jesus and His disciples when here, in whose steps we are to follow –

At one Assembly Meeting – so-called – it was stated openly in the presence of several hundred brethren, that 'We cannot follow the Lord, as He was unique, and could do what we cannot do, we cannot imitate Paul, he was an elect vessel', and so on.

3. Excommunication

Although there is only one case of excommunication in the New Testament, in 1 Cor. 5, and that of such an incestuous character that even the Gentiles would not mention such things, the whole system of Exclusive Brethren has run completely riot in this matter.

Once anyone is 'outside' the most extreme and untruthful statements are made about them.

The above, and other phrases, have been used by their leaders in public meetings, in the presence of hundreds of brethren, and have never been challenged, so great is the reign of terror in this evil and iniquitous sect, nor have they been recanted in any way.

4. Laodicean Presumption

It has also become increasingly obvious in the last year or two that the small and insignificant sect of Exclusive Brethren have come to regard themselves as 'the Assembly',

With all their wonderful opinions of themselves they know not that they are poor and wretched and naked and blind.

Many still going on with this evil system would fully endorse all that is set forth in this letter,

5. Intoxicants

On this subject two things are quite clear. On the one hand the rightful use of Alcoholic Liquor is not forbidden in Scripture

This false doctrine has led to deplorable results – young men and young women holding parties at which some have been completely intoxicated, with sorrowful moral results, activities that are commonly found among 'teenagers' in the world.

The disastrous consequences of this new and monstrous doctrine is only just beginning to bear fruit.


Finally, I must express my deep sorrow at having to separate from many beloved brothers and sisters with whom I have walked for many years.

In view of the above it is impossible for me ever again to set foot in any room used by this sect.

My house will always be open to any who love our Lord Jesus Christ in sincerity and who walk in obedience to the revealed mind of God in His Word.

Your brother in Christ, James Rainford.

'The Parting of the Ways' is continued on Part 2 of 2

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